Girl Playing Hot / Cold Mind games

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I matched with another girl on hinge a few weeks back (this is diff from the girl I had semi lay with in hotel room). Convos were PWF style, always taking in the direction of meet-up and flirting and escalating. Ik Alex, you'll be wondering why don't I simply call over at my place or don't lay on first date, Indian culture is different and here hookups are not easy and it's not that I'm looking for in the first date either.

So before we met, the texts were flirty and she was already love bombing me and that kinda me think why is she already sold on me before meeting me. The date was very good, she was very open, nice flirty convos and also some deep talks. Hand holding, my hands on her thigh, eye contact and everything was just too perfect but I could sense she was bit shy about giving me a kiss because when I used to come closer to her or indirectly hint she'd shy away. At the end of the date when were alone walking, she gave me a slight smooch on my lips. Cute, but not like make out level.

Post that date of ours, I did say that I'd like to see her again, she agreed. But after that her texts have kinda getting dry and cold. I tried using takeaways and even called her because we don't mind giving calls, and she was like I'm not in a good mood to talk etc.

Today she replied back to my text after 2-3 days (I had planned to send her "Are you always this talkative" but she replied before I could send a callout) and I told her "I wanna see you again" and she replied "Liar"

Idk what is that supposed to mean and Idk how do I move things forward to schedule another date and get her interested again even on texts.

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Yea im not really sure what happened there. Id just respond "what am i lying about?"

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I got no reply so after a day I texted her "Are you always this talkative?" and she gives "Yes" so I put up the chat screenshot to Fire Texts app and I sent her "Well, we should get together and combine our talkative powers" she then replies "Google pay 2k" (now idk if she meant she only has ₹2k or wants me to send money so I assumed the latter and flipped it back on her by saying...) "Ya send me" and she tells me "You send me 2k" I sent her naahh nodding gif, she again texts me "Google pay 2k" to which I just reacted šŸ‘ŽšŸ»

This conversation happened like 2 days ago and I noticed she unfollowed me. So today I used a strong takeaway and sent her "Hey [her name], if you're not into this you can lmk so I can stop trying.

I felt our date went very well and I honestly felt there were strong vibes, chemistry and connection that's why I've been trying to make plans with you again.

But if you've lost interest... No hard feelings. I'll stop texting."

She replied "Works!"

I'm not upset or mad about it. But it really just baffles me that there are so many time wasters. Now this might be completely a location issue because if it's working for you guys and I'm using the same game but not closing, then it's most def culture and location issue.

Ik Alex handles this forum but if Indian PE is still part of PWF community, I'd love to hear his thoughts.

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avilench . Avatar

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This situation is actually very straightforward, whhen you come close to sex but sex doesnt happen you very rarely get a second date. There are some good articles about this on the girlschase website

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