Hey, in a situation with one girl who’s lost attraction and wanted space, but we’ve exchanged a couple of messages since - her bdays soon, was thinking should I send her a short message eg a meme etc? Seems rude not to say something but also don’t wanna seem like I’m trying to impress her
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I would wait until her birthday and just say happy birthday. How do you know she lost attraction ?
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Well it’s a bit long but basically we were dating 3 weeks, gained lots of momentum fast then had an argument after which she said she wanted a “break for now”. Shortly after we did resume texting then she suddenly stopped. I re-engaged and she said she still didn’t “want to see anyone”, citing mental fatigue from work stress and wanting more time for herself. After that we texted briefly Fri/Sat. Her bdays Thurs and I don’t wanna seem like I’m chasing or a try hard but obv it is her bday lol