girl keeps telling me she too busy

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J

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J

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i got this girls number off tinder we've been texting for a couple of days but idk wat do anymore, she told me shes too busy rn to link so should i just stop texting her?

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S

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She's just kind of been going in a circle and not trying to find a date it seems. Also, side note, but stop texting like you're fucking 12 bro. Finish your words and sentences. Find a day that you're available on, pitch it to her, if she accepts, great. If not, then she's not down for a date-- atleast right now.

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JenYu T Avatar

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I disagree fundamentally on “finish your sentence” if that’s how you genuinely text bro then do that you can still get all the girls you want lol (text game does need work however). BUT Being yourself is a good thing sometimes.... Just saying. I’d argue the more you be yourself the more genuine, loving, feminine, VIRGIN LOL, girls you attract and find

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avilench . Avatar

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"It's a casual drink for 2 hours. Not asking for your kidneys or asking to play a game of Monopoly"

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JenYu T Avatar

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And you can save this. The theme right now should be re-framing.

  1. “Can you remind me again why I’m dealing with you. I frogot”
    (Probably the most newbie unfriendly line I’ll give here and spell forget wrong on purpose lol don’t ask I’m insane with this shit. Can be taken to a beautiful “jokey/shit testy/ gets in her head” direction but you’d have to know what to say after. )

  2. “Mhm” (you won’t like this but you gotta add some edge now. You’re too nice and accommodating to a girl who has not helped you out at all. Get another girl would be my genuine advice. But if you use this know there is a 50% chance she just reads it, feels slightly judged but won’t respond. Then wait a day or two then hit her back under a more assertive frame.)

  3. “Wow you reallly want me to wait for you like we’re in a fucking Disney movie lol” (call her out for what she’s doing. This is in large part what she is doing if you didn’t know. She won’t expect this and this is the most newb friendly response I could think of quickly. This whole text scenario needs frame restructuring imo lol)

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