Girl hits with classic "I got stuff in personal life" and gets flaky. How to respond?
So, I matched with this girl on 20th October, hit her with a pickup line and she was ONNN, heavy investments, we binded over metal music, paragraphs and then she said we should meet, but she's travelling till the 1st Nov.
I waited and texted her a bit to keep the lead warm, she never replied but today she hits me with this. At first I texted have a good day but then I saw Alex turn these situations around.
Should I hit her with "I get it things get in life, but we got along so well and leaving things in between would be anticlimactic, wont hurt to hang out once" ?
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Maybe she felt you were being too invested and lost interest. If the convos were mainly about music and you sending her songs , chances are she probably started seeing you more as a friend (and/or too invested) and that sexual tension faded.
The text is worth a shot.


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Really hard to tell with 1 screenshot man