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This girl and i talked for a little bit and i set up the date through hinge but we did exchange numbers after.
She texted me on friday that she was excited about our date sunday and that i had a great 4th of july. i told her i was excited for the date too.
Sunday i sent my confirmation text and she was still all good to go. I get to the date and i tell her i grabbed us a seat.
she replies "Oh i thought it was at 7:30 not 6:30. im about to leave but im an hour away
me - oh
her - is that fine?
me - yea its fine
her - im so sorry!
So shes supposed to be on her way. i go and grab a drink nearby then when its 7:25 i texted her if she was close. she doesnt read it. i sent a second message at 7:40 saying this is getting disrespectful and it never goes through. she had blocked me and unmatched me on hinge.
Im so confused. was it because i was willing to wait an hour later? or didnt accept her apology? i just dont understand
Hmm. This definitely seems like miscommunication. Hard to say without screenshots. But did you not text her a few hours before asking if "6:30 was still good?" ? this might be a results of poor logistical planning from your end. And maybe the distance was too much for her too.
i texted her about 2 hours before asking if she was still good for today and she said yea was good to go. I guess i should have confirmed 6:30 again. i figured she was on her way after she said sorry. so i texted her about 7:20 to see if she was close and got no response. tried sending another message but it wouldnt go through for a long time so i just deleted it since she had blocked me and un matched me. She unblocked me later that night though because i can see she read the "close" text after a couple hours. Im thinking of sending the "i genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type"
"That was kinda fucked up..."
I don’t think you did anything wrong bro. If anything maybe you didn’t build enough comfort through text but some girls are just flakey like that. Or maybe she had a panic attack and just flaked. Regardless that wasn’t cool and I’m sorry you went through that. Onto the next
