Ghosted because I am under 6ft tall
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Getting matches but getting ghosted when mentioning my height (5’7”). What should I say if asked how tall I am?
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Well, what I would do is get elevator shoes or boots which will add 2+ inches to your height and then just say youre 5'10. The only catch is you'll have to wear the shoes to the date the very first time. If you can close, then it wont matter.
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Gotcha. So If/when I close and get her to the bedroom. How do I explain me jumping down from my skyscrapers? Or should I just wear my shoes in bed?
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the girl's not gonna ask, I know plenty of people who wear elevator shoes on dates, but not single one who has ever been called out. Guys worry about this stuff way more than girls actually think about it
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Brother I'm 5'7 as well and I wouldn't worry about it too much. I was self conscious as well but I bought some shoes and boots from this company (Conzuri) and I wear those on dates. I banged two girls in two weeks and neither of them said anything about my height. Although those chicks were like 4'10 and 5'3 so as long as they are shorter or similar height than you I don't think it will matter. If you escalate and vibe well it shouldn't be an issue. Good luck my fellow short king
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Question, on hinge, if you compliment/comment on a girls pic/prompt and she matches with you but don’t respond, do you follow up or wait a day or two?
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I personally don't use hinge as I've never had any luck with it, although I have a friend who got a long term gf from it. I think there are more girls on tinder and bumble imo. I think the same rules apply, wait a day or two, then have something to open with again. I'm not an expert but hope that's helpful. If you get a match on hinge, is there an automatic chat/message function like on tinder? I'd just open again a day or two later on that, if so
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like Alex said just say you're 5'10 they can't tell a difference. Plus girls lie about all sorts of shit so its justified lmao
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Facts! 💯
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Preciate it bro 🤝🏾