So towards the end of last month, I matched a girl on bumble, we hit it off and everything went really well and even went on the first date. However, She hasn't spoken to me since the morning after our date which was a little over a week ago now. I've messaged her in the time since but she's completely went awol. We didnt smash on the first date but we did make out and the day after the date she said stuff like "best date i've ever been on it was amazing" and the likes but nothing since. Should I just hit her with the last attempt take away in a few days? the last i tried messaging her was 3 days ago now. Its quite annoying because shes actually really cool, hot af and we had a huge amount of chemistry. I wish I'd found Alex's channel and this forum sooner tbh maybe it would have helped sooner but at this point im really not even sure because she is actually on the autism spectrum but if anyone has any advice it would be much appreciated!

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Yea I had that happen to me and my friend too. We'd go on a date, it would be great, we'd make out with the girl (sometimes the girl seemed to be really into the make out) but then they ghosts us or says they didn't feel the vibe
No idea whats going on tbh, I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone in this. My best guess is that the girl already likes and is seeing another guy or that she is looking for something very long term and even tho she thinks ur cool, she just cant see you as her future husband/dad of her kids