She lives 2h from me. Soft closed on Tinder. Got her on phone call. Down to meetup and spend the night etc. She said she could come her. Then we both had to travel and didnt talk much for 2 weeks. I reenaged and she soft closed me wanting me to come to her since we’re both back. I’ve already tried the I’ll come to you the 2nd time if you come to me the first time. She ddnt really bite on it

How can I handle this objectiom? Thanks!