Gender Roles Rejection? The World is Fucked
Hey boys,
Here’s the story:
2 months ago, pulled this chick from a bar to her house. Probably the easiest pull I’ve ever done, with no objections at all.
Sent her the “that was 🔥” text afterwards, no response to that or my follow up.
Decided to message her a few days ago, and we were setting up a date when the attached interaction occurred...
Apparently I told her what to wear? And that gender roles don’t exist anymore? I was telling her what to do?
Society has made men get rid of so many traits that come natural to us, in favour of traits that make us unattractive to many.
The thing is, if I don’t plan and organise dates, many women would internally hate it, but the social construct narrative that we are all equal, leads to shit like this.
- My text game is usually solid, could I have done any better here?
- Surely this was just a rare occurrence right? Or is this something we need to be wary of and change our approach?
Fucking hell boys, world is cooked
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I think she felt like a hoe cause she ONS you. She suggests "wearing them to the city". This tells me she kind of wants to go on a "normal" date. Notice how she also gets defensive when you suggest a bar directly next to her place, this also suggests to me she doesn't want to be seen as easy.
Not saying I would put up with that, she sounds kind of obnoxious with that last text, just trying to break down what may be going on in her head.
We evolved to embrace gender roles, because it was the most efficient way for two mates to succeed in the world. Men have strengths, women have strengths, don't let society tell you otherwise.
In short I've lost way more chicks being wishy washy, than being direct with a plan. Seems like a one off occurrence, curious to what others think tho
yeah that was just a sh*t test
But frankly unless the girl is super hot, I'll probably would bounce too
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I would have worded things differently. It almost seemed like you were trying to think of something alpha to text her and she called you out on it.
If you banged her earlier and she got this hostile after, probably means there was a lot of incongruous between how you behaved in person and these texts, would be my guess.
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Well, she seems like a pain in the ass. But you also handled it fairly poorly. When she said "What if I don't wanna go there", I would have simply said "Why not". Then if she says I don't like being told what to do, I would have just said "Um. It was just a suggestion..." That probably would have worked a lot better