Fumbled hinge match a year ago. Want to try her Instagram again
So I matched this girl last year on hinge and my text game was real bad, my opener got a response but when I suggested we go for a cruise at night for a first date, she said she ain’t into that and I never heard from her again. She ended up disappearing from my match list a few months later, maybe she deleted it or unmatched I don’t know.
On her profile she linked her Instagram saying she was more active There, the issue is I didn’t have Instagram and still don’t. But a few months after she unmatched I actually made a quick Instagram and dm her but she didn’t even open it up. I deleted that profile and I wanna try again but it’s difficult given that I have no actual Instagram profile following.
Any suggestions here?
Just move on bro
That’s just the easy way to conclude it. Reality is I have nothing to lose. I got plenty other leads that are keeping me busy, so this isn’t coming from a scarcity standpoint. But this girl was exactly my type, and knowing my poor text game messed it up has me triggered still.
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I’ll give you this routine I stole from one of Alex’s videos:
You: Hey. Can I say something
Her: Ok??
You: We spoke on hinge but it wasn’t moving anywhere so when I got the notification I decided to reach out here, since you're just my type
She’ll ask “what notification?” Because I use this in a slightly different context for numbers I’ve saved to my phone that have gone cold and they show up on snapchat or telegram. So just say “when I was browsing instagram and saw your page I decided to reach out here, since you're just my type“ Now like the other guy was saying this has a low chance of working but won’t hurt to try, worse thing is she could block you off rip. Best scenario she likes your insta and you’re able to reengage the conversation using skills you picked up here and get her on a wine date. I’ve had both scenarios happen, getting blocked seldom happens, what usually happens is she’ll ask for more details, to find out why y’all stopped talking in the first place. Own it and try to dhv why you left if you have to with a white lie like you had to move out of town temporarily for business project and now you’re back, something like that if she asks, just keep it fun & flirty without a hint of being butthurt, maybe she can be your sexy tour guide now that you’re back in town. It’s all gonna come down to if your insta piques her interest
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There's no other solution here than actually having a good ig profile and contacting her. Like what else do you think can be done here?