Hey guys, i wanted your opinion on this. Some backstory... around NOV 2020 I broke up with my ex and then had an old flame (we were never together i just liked her but never made a move, typical beta shit) reach out. we went out a couple of times and it went well i just never made a move (reoccurring point). we went out for valentines day and she prefaced it was a friends date and naturally at the time, I didn't make any moves, super whipped in that sense. After that moment i realized that i was doing the same SIMPISMS as before my ex which would be :
1.Be needy
2.Put her on a pedestal
3.Be always available for her
(we havnt texted since FEB 14 2021)
After watching a ton of PWF videos and a lot of self-reflection I ended up going back out there and getting what I want with different girls. Essentially flipping the script. After having a booty call, getting laid constantly, and working on text game I feel my confidence is pretty high... With that being said, should I reengage this girl once again but not for a realtionship bc that ship has sailed for me, but to see if can get the lay or not even that to show that I'm not the same person I was months ago? Another way to ask is if anyone here used the techniques learned thru PWF and try to use them on a girl that has friend zoned them... if so how'd it go?
Thanks for reading
-N

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Getting out of a friend zone is tough man, but if it was a significant amount of time since you saw her and it’s apparent that you are a different person now then you do have a shot. You’re not loosing anything so just go for it