For anyone frustrated or considering leaving the community
I've seen a couple posts about people leaving the group or getting frustrated. I want to just Copy Paste my response to one of those posts here for anyone feeling the same way about their progress with this.
How long have you been part of the FB Group? One of the biggest factors aside from the product and other things is this group. As you can see just from the response of many others here, we're all willing to help and give input. The sheer amount of posts, questions, and other problems people are dealing with, YOU should be feeding off of. Ever since i've purchased this product, i've almost DAILY been here, occasionally reading posts, giving suggestions (whether they were good or bad) and whenever the post is updated, i'd check to see where the interaction is going and consider EVERYONE's interactions here as your own. This alone will multiply your learning greater than what you'll get from focusing on your own interactions only.
Second, we all deal with our own personnal roadblocks with game and understanding what it is that is causing us to be stuck, as I'm sure you're dealing with now. There's been many times I just wanted to stop and figured there's no way i'll figure it out, it must be because i'm ugly, dumb, weird shaped head, or some other bullshit excuse. But because I stuck with it, I eventually found the light at the end and carried on with my improvements. It's a marathon man and you gotta endure it.
It also seems like someone else mentioned it, but it's also a numbers game. You're going to go through a lot of matches. Alex has a video on youtube where he breaks down the NUMBERS of matches -> soft closes -> numbers -> dates -> hard closes. Watch that and it might make you feel slightly better about your numbers and you'll realize you just need more volume.
Coaching always helps too, doesn't hurt to have at least just have 1 call if you've been stuck with 1 particular issue for a long time and can't seem to figure it out. They can help you break through that wall faster than you can alone.
Chin up man
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I can throughly agree with everything said, been using the system for going on 3 years now. And the 1st 2 were rough (depression, doubt, etc) it’s normal man and part of the process. I’m just now getting shit together & had my best year thus far last year, don’t even know how many women tbh. The struggle... It’s normal man, your game has to fit YOU.
It takes time to figure that out. The numbers Alex dropped in his video were wild like out of 100 matches only a good 10 will be locked for a bang. The others would be flakes, unmatches, time wasters etc.
Anyone out there struggling.... keep pushing, and don’t carry baggage from your last interaction to the next, that’s the most important. Try new openers, shit.. make new openers and just get a feel for game until you get something that feels natural. Women like what you do with your mouth as much in bed as they do outside of the bedroom!