Maybe you could ask if you should also pick up some strawberries and whipped cream as a flirt.
I may be off-base here, but my immediate vibe from reading the texts is that you're abandoning the man's frame by agreeing to (or proposing to have) a reality TV and ice cream night. It feels like a girl's night or a chick hanging out with a gay best friend. I may be overthinking the stigma around reality TV and hopefully everything will work out for you, but be careful to maintain frame.
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Maybe you could ask if you should also pick up some strawberries and whipped cream as a flirt.
I may be off-base here, but my immediate vibe from reading the texts is that you're abandoning the man's frame by agreeing to (or proposing to have) a reality TV and ice cream night. It feels like a girl's night or a chick hanging out with a gay best friend. I may be overthinking the stigma around reality TV and hopefully everything will work out for you, but be careful to maintain frame.