M
2 Posts (+1), 2 Cmts (+2)
I wouldn't say that, I think it comes off as a bit insecure. I would just go with something like "Oh?".
V
13 Posts (+9), 79 Cmts (+26)
I see your point. I think an "Oh?" would make her keep the buyer frame tho and tell me more about her ideal guy. We could flip things later as well I just think that could be a bit harder. Don't you think? Curious what Russianhandro will say).
M
2 Posts (+1), 2 Cmts (+2)
I think you're overthinking this. If she tells you what she likes in a guy thats a good thing, she's qualifying. There are also a lot of ways she can respond to "Oh?" its useless to predict
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
To be honest, I am really not a fan of the way you phrased your second message. First of, you are the one who "made" her the "buyer". By talking about what SHE is looking for in a guy , instead of what you are looking in a girl. I would have said something like " Because I am typically attracted to (qualifying statement) Russian girls and they are to me".
At this point, I think "Oh ?" is a pretty good choice. I like that a bit more than " Am I wrong? "
13 Posts (+9), 79 Cmts (+26)
Do you have any last attempt, spike message here? wouldn't mind going a bit more risky for pattern interrupt.
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