Anyone have any best practices to reduce flakes. Obviously comes with the territory but shit is getting ridiculous. Nudes exchanged, descriptive sexting, FaceTime dirty talk, day of the date nothing. Even non explicitly sexual framed wine dates, so excited!!! Day of the date nothing. Hot ass young 20’s girls so I know some flaking to be expected, but fuck. This week went from 3 bonified fuck dates to fuck all. Know to never be Butt hurt when addressing it, but can’t be pushover and just accept the shit. So any following up after flake strategies as well? Really seems night of or next day rule is only way to go.
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Sorry bro, you might just have some shitty luck with these particular girls. Honestly, the best thing you can do is confirmation texts and keep them engaged while displaying high-value traits (check out PlayingFire Yt for specifics on each of those). Unlucky my g
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you can say "i generally don't take you for the flakey type" that text has always worked pretty well for me
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Yep. Day of check in texts really do work. You have to make sure she stays aware of what you two have going on. If not she may make an excuse, bail, have something come up or ghost.