Flake epidemic strikes again
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
She seemed super invested and as soon as I tried to make plans nothing
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I would wait at least 3 days on this one. "If you're too nervous, I'd understand"
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
Thanks, I was thinking maybe till Monday. She's probably gonna be busy with Christmas stuff for the rest of the week cause she has two kids
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
I wouldn't really say that's a flake because you guys never had plans. Check out the video I have 5 steps to date. Basically you need to soft close before you hard close like this
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You definitely didn’t need to add the follow up message. I would wait a few more days like you mentioned and then say “don’t worry, it’s not a trick question”
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Sigh...you should’ve asked “when are you free to get together” instead of asking if she could meet tomorrow night.
That follow up text was definitely not needed. Please don’t send a 3rd. Wait 1 week, she may still hit you up.
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
I'll hit her up again next Monday
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
She already told me her availability was Wednesdays and Saturday nights. So I was trying to lock in for Wednesday cause Saturday is Christmas and I'll be busy