It's been a bit back and forth with this girl, she qualified herself, was a bit sexualized already, I flaked on her once.

But this made me think if I should just go simply with tomorrow or also add sth about spanking her if she flakes next time.
I'd be inclined to add it, but she was all positive so far, I already flaked once and she offered an alternative.
Once it somewhat backfired at first point, so can be a bit unnecessarily risk.
If it was the second time or no alternative, I'd definitely add it.
Thoughts on that? Maybe overthinking but I like to optimize smaller things as well haha.