In my experience first date sex is an uphill battle versus going for it on the 2nd date with less americanized asians

This one is off coffee meets bagel & is 32 (I’m 29) with her own house basically preparing for retirement. since this is a Saturday night date would it be best to kiss & end it on my terms in public after about an hour

Or

Just try to invite her over now “do you like boba” even though it is likely to blow up in my face... Again lol