Fear of a date, need help

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Hey guys, Im about to have my first date since two years and Im quite nervous, Im 25 years old and I have a 38 year old milf whos ready to bang.

I`m pretty nervous and anxious and had some problems with errection in the past in combination with alcohol and ONS.

I`m thinking about trying Sildenafil to get rid of the pressure of not getting hard over a long time.

Any thoughts?

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J

26 Posts (+32), 186 Cmts (+99)

I take dick pills if I'm nervous. No big deal. Whatever you can do to make the experience better for yourself so your not worried about that the whole time. Then when you get a little more experience that nervousness will go away.

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The Black Attack Avatar

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The more you think about it, the worse it'll be. At 25 years old, its 99% just a mental block. Think about all of the times you had sex and you didn't have erection problems instead of the times that you did. As dumb as it sounds, just focus on something else. Also, not masturbating leading up to the date can help make it easier to get hard.

Alex has a video on his pre date ritual for nervousness: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Vaist186-8&pp=ygUTcHJlIGRhdGUgcml0dWFsIHB3Zg%3D%3D

Good luck bro

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C

32 Posts (+21), 576 Cmts (+276)

nervousness is the boner killer man, treat her like any other girl.

either way, its a win, you pulled a milf or you closed a milf, let us know how it goes, gl

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avilench . Avatar

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Yeah. Go ahead. But take a really small piece of it. I'm sure you'll be okay

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B

3 Posts (+0), 99 Cmts (+46)

Just take one if you have to dude, I know lot's of guys who have to take them when pulling from bars and clubs, it's not a massive deal, but if you find it hard to get it up or even simply to finish just focus on her pleasure and making it a good time for her, I tend to find I get hard from eating her out so I never have to worry about not getting an erection, also if you're struggling to finish just imagine the last think you jerked off to as that can help rejog your mind like "oh yeh I came to this last time so I can do it again"

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P

59 Posts (+8), 24 Cmts (+4)

thanks man. Any recommendations on the fear?

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