Extremely slow texting for months, sorta lost it at the end. How to revive?
“I don’t understand the consistency when you definately got others to text, why you doing this w me”
Is they’re anything I’ve missed? I said way too much at the end but is they’re anything I can do other than just say nothing ever again?
Been texting in this apprehensive nature for 5 months now.
She’s young so maybe she’s terrified.
The first message to her last response was an attempt at playing cool that she’s that into me to ask me that
But obviously that response and all the other follow ups were fails.
What could I have done better?
Should I have just left it at that first message?
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I admire your persistence. This seems like the typical time waster. I usually number close when they say they’re not on the app much. “I have a solution for that.” “Shoot me your number.” Need more context to see what might have disinterested her. I think best play is to wait a week and reopen, changing the subject.
It was quite sexually charged at the beggining with her acting bratty and me telling her how I’d treat a brat. Over the course of a few months it then shifted to her finally voicing a concern of why talk about sex so straight up
The last voice note she responded too, I said drop your number or drop some more bs assumptions
She said what she said
Do you think the persistence has been too needy? It’s been 6 months almost and if I knew they’re no chance I wouldn’t have a problem dropping it. But it seems like I’m one exchange away from a phone call after all this time
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You're chasing sooo hard man. Just take the L sometimes. Do you really want to be with a girl who is so nuetral to sex? She is actively trying to avoid it and you keep pushing. Please don't send 15 texts in a row. Get the hint and move on, or unmatch (in worries of getting reported and banned)