Photos are of her profile for reference. Convo just started.
Me (to the photo with graffiti bg): I can't tell if you are innocent or an absolute baddie
Her: Hm elaborate
First time I got a reply like this, thoughts on best way to approach it?
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It’s your lucky day, Alex made a YouTube Short about that a week ago
Here’s his answer: “ You give off a confident and independent impression from your pictures. I get the feeling if you really want something, you'll go out and go for it. Adventurous, creative, empathetic, with some sass. Assertive in your day to day life but you have this sexy feminine energy. From the way your eyes look into the camera, to the way your hair caresses your shoulders as it runs down your neck, even that slight little head tilt, tells me there’s also a fun submissive side.”
Maybe you need to adjust a bit but that can work
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Thanks. I agree with Matt, it's too much. But a shortened version can work.





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Well u might wanna change the wording a bit. A baddie isnt a bad girl i.e. a girl whos dtf and parties. A baddie is a girl whos sexy af. So asking if theyre innocent or a total baddie doesnt make sense cuz the two arent mutually exclusive.
Id say something more like -
"I cant tell if ur innocent or a lil wild child"
To answer ur question tho maybe tease her for being bossy -
"We havent even met yet and ur already bossing me around!"
"Ur not my boss missy!"
"Not until u say please!"
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I think in context it works. Maybe there is a better way to put it. Don't love the lil wild child though. Maybe "innocent or wild" or "innocent or trouble" either way doesn't have quite the same ring to it.
Better wording for your idea is "oooh, so bossy. Say please first". But either way I'm lost at what to reply when she does say please.
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Haha maybe im just being pedantic. I suppose if they understand what u mean then who cares. But it could possibly cause some confusion. Plus i think baddie is a good way to compliment a woman if u ever wanted to, especially if theyre younger. E.g. damn girl u bad asf!
I like lil wild child cuz its suggestive but also silly enough that u could claim ur just having fun. U cant say something like "innocent or naughty" cuz shell think ur a douchy perv. Anyway i wouldnt mind hearing ur thoughts.
I like that wording for sure! Idk if its my style - im a lil more high energy - but ill have to keep it in my back pocket. As for if she says please, maybe call her a good girl then explain what u meant?