I met this girl i was classmates with at my old school at a bar last weekend and we were vibing pretty well, we started planning a ice cream date there since she gave me the im not a one not stand vibe. She was eyeing me the entire night and even told a mutual friend how much she liked me even tho we never really talked in class. She told me she did research on me (kinda weird) but it told me she was pretty interested so i took the more straight forward approach. She says she’s busy with senior week, but I don’t really know what it entails so I believe her, now im just tryna gauge whether or not i went about this correctly since Ive been in a relationship for the past 7 months. Appreciate all input!
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I wouldn't waste my time on her. Her text are short and don't show enough interest in a hookup or relationship way. Personally, I've matched with girls on apps or met them in public (bar, cafe..) that were former school mates, coworkers, or friends. I though they were interested in me in a dating sense, but it's end that they just wanted to socialize and catchup. There was nothing dating or romantic wise. Alot of girls especially in 20s are just playing games. They like attention and to socialize, but they won't hookup or date you. I found a lot of success in hooking up or dating girls that I've newly met. There's no baggage of the past.
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wouldnt rush to judgement about the 1 night stand. pretty much every girl will have sex on the first date with the right guy.
Your texts seem ok. Biggest thing id say is some texts are kinda corny. Like the "looking forward to seeing if its as sweet as you".. My advice is to install firetexts. it can help massively with this.
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Ironic, that was the one text i used ai with ahaha, but ill give it a try