Empathy or no?

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J

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J

13 Posts (+2), 25 Cmts (+4)

Alright so I’m sure some of you guys remember I had posted this conversation earlier. We had a “date” set up for last Saturday but she never let me know, I assumed she ghosted me and today I called her out on it cuz I felt there was nothing to lose at this point. I don’t want to seem desperate in my response now, and I’m not sure if I should be empathetic or not. I know Alex had a video on that, but I can’t seem to find it and don’t remember too well. Advice? I was thinking of showing some empathy but not much interest by saying “Oh I hope everything is alright, how does Sunday at 10 sound at (address)?”

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J

35 Posts (+2), 150 Cmts (+63)

That Saturday text is bad. Given she ignored your previous two messages you should use another takeaway. Something like "Hey if tonight isn't good just lmk and I'll make other plans"

As played I kinda like flipping the script on her, let her chase a bit. Something like "Hmm it depends. What did you have in mind"

The one thing you did do well is you persisted. Didn't get butthurt, followed up strong, and she rewarded you for that. Now bring it on home bro

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J

13 Posts (+2), 25 Cmts (+4)

Yeah the Saturday one was pretty bad, just nothing else came to mind. I figured it came off as a bit desperate after I sent it. In terms of flipping the script the whole conversation was sexual and it’s pretty clear we’re going to fuck. Thank you though for the evaluation. Ima turn this into a LR

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V

3 Posts (-9), 364 Cmts (+9)

Why don't u call with her and confirm

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J

13 Posts (+2), 25 Cmts (+4)

I’m not comfortable with calling yet, wouldn’t know how to go about it. So far my text game has gotten better but that’s it. I gotta work on day and night game as well

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