I was unmatched so lost the convo but here is what I remember:
App is Bumble. Her profile liked traits: confidence, emotional intelligence
Her opening question in profile: Where would your ideal date be?
Me: It will start at my place
Her: That's ambitious
Me: That's one of my traits. Where would your perfect date be?
Her: I prefer outside :)
Me: I'm a gentleman, we can meet in the middle. How about the terrace or garden of my place š
Her: So it has to be at your place?
Me: Doesn't have to be, we're talking about ideal place
Her: So what would you do w me at your place?
Me: I like your lips and body. Would slowly explore them, starting from top
Her: I like to dominate
Me: Have you taken bdsmtest?
Her: Yes, I know myself and what I want
Me: I'm a dom as well with switch tendencies, but I'm also open to experimenting
Her: Unmatch
I guess being honest didn't work well here. What would be my best move?

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It seems like she was not looking for a dominant guy. Maybe you could have salvaged it by saying "have you ever switched" but if the answer is no then there is really nothing that you can do. unless you want to pretend to be submissive.
Also - I wouldn't push for your place so hard so early on