So I know I post a lot here, but I feel that I'm getting better at noticing patterns in text. One pattern I notice is that girls will say that they're not looking for hookups or that they're looking for a relationship, but still seem to be down for one. An example would be this girl, who put that she wasn't looking for hookups after I started texting her, but she was also receptive to me sexualizing the convo. I feel that I should just keep the conversation with the same level of sexuality, right? Just wanna know if that's the right move or not. Thanks!






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Yea, what a chick says in her profile is largely irrelevant, especially when it comes to what they’re looking for.
As a side note, I recommend avoiding doing the snake thing, just invite them over for wine and after you lock down a day and time exchange numbers
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By snake thing you mean talking to them normally and then switching up right? Or do you mean something else. The problem is I'm only 19 so I can't invite them over for wine otherwise I totally would :/ But thanks for the help Alex, you've given me a lot of good advice so far
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Sorry haha auto correct, I meant “Snapchat”. I generally am not a fan, although with your age range it might be better