Do you guys "kiss and tell" with your normie friends?
10 Posts (+6), 16 Cmts (+9)
I used to but I think I'm gonna stop tbh. It's just ego and it tends to make others feel bad or jealous. I have 1 pua friend and we talk about lays in more detail so that's my outlet. But with friends and family I'm thinking it's a good idea to keep quiet, being a player is being demonized in the media nowdays and you just look like a creep.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Yea if it’s something that they’re interested in. I’m not gonna bring it up at my family reunion because no one there will care about it. I try to be relevant to whoever I’m talking to. I don’t hide it though
7 Posts (+2), 32 Cmts (+9)
I don't talk about pua specific stuff with anyone i know irl. But i tell everyone about my sexcapades. Everyone at both my workplaces know me as a manwhore. I send my mates snaps when im with girls and talk about chicks all the time with the boys.
I got a girl coming over tonight who I've worked with for 2 years now and shes heard all about my stories over that time yet shes still keen to come over...girls are actually pretty attracted to guys that pull
A lot of the time when travelling I've become friends with people over the fact we talked about our lays when we met and we'll end up going on the hunt together.
But I guess it depends on how you act. I dont give a shit what anyone thinks of me and i have fun with it all, i dont take anything too seriously and Im pretty good lookong irl too so i get a lot of funny stories out of my sex life. Im not desperate so i dont act desperate therefore i dont seem desperate when i talk about sex and chicks.
I have a few best friends who I talk about it alot with. just girls we're hanging out w, stories, dating life stuff like that. I used to love talking pua stuff but 1) you do come off creepy as you say but also thirsty/tryhard, 2) not alot of people understand or want to get better w dating, they just want to demonize girls. it gets tiring talking about something you're passionate about to hear some idiot say 'yeah bro fuck that shit, all girls are sluts and attention whores, get that money then fuck all the bitches you want". also, alot of guys are just fucking weirdos and talk mad shit, but are super awkward around girls. Ive started to distance myself personally from them
that being said I do love talking about dating w people, its a nice compromise where I can talk about stuff im passionate about without getting too pua-y
36 Posts (+13), 199 Cmts (+70)
generally makes people resentful. you’ll even see it on forums when guys are sharing about doing well. i’ve got a couple friends who are into seduction. i keep those convos with them. peers resent it.