Do Y’all take Weekends Off ? | For the DHV
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4 Cmts
3y ago
I’m trying to master the busy and unavailable vibe and deduced to take weekends off from replying to chicks. It honestly feels great but not sure if I’m too unavailable and more curious on how you guys handle response time to balance out from being always available (aka low value)
9 Posts (+15), 447 Cmts (+389)
What i do is if a girl is being super cool, fun, she texts me first or is responding very fast then i reward her by texting back relatively fast aswell. If she isnt like that or takes a while to reply i will "punish" that behaviour and respond after a day or 2
52 Posts (+30), 190 Cmts (+99)
So if she’s texting back and forth you just let it flow all weekend even if no plans are being made?
It doesn’t look lame/low value on weekend that you’re texting her?
9 Posts (+15), 447 Cmts (+389)
Yea but im just texting to ger her investment up so she doesent flake.
Well when im out with friends or at the gym or studying i wont text them but if im just chilling at home i will no problem
Edit: if she responds to every one of my texts in 10min or less i will just go back in forth with her if im not busy. Cuz if shes texting me that much then shes really into me so it doesent really hurt if i reply a bit more often + if the convo is great that will just make her more into me