I mean I’m pretty new to Tinder and chatting to girls but I decided to use some lines I saw from Playing With Fire channel and e-book, and this is what I got. Any help on how to recover from this because it looks like she got turned off from my ‘grammar’ mistake.
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Yea man this is just poor use of the English language. I would just learn and move on. Also, keep things very simple if you don’t speak English well. There’s no need to try to be fancy
Yea man being into a blonde isn’t exactly a stereotype that’s why her response was justified. She’s telling you dude that’s not a stereotype. You should’ve just said “You’re exactly my type”, or “You’re changing my type. Blonde girls. I never used to be into them” would have made so much more sense. But I would have rather gone with the first line, because I don’t want her to think that she would be my “first” blonde girl. I want her to know that I’ve had experienced with lots of blonde girls.
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Just so you know I got this from Alex’s e-book so I didn’t think twice before using that line. Anyways thanks for the advice.
Any suggestions on how to revive this convo?
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Just so you know I got this from Alex’s e-book so I didn’t think twice before using that line. Anyways thanks for the advice.
Any suggestions on how to revive this convo?
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Do the dog one:
"Hey saw this dog today it was coughing in the streets so I went up to it and it actually caughed out a fully-formed rose. It must have like been digging around in some guy's garden or something and it reminded of you."
Basically a dog picked up a rose and reminded of her hahaha.
And then if she doesnt respond then you say "the dog died by the way".
Hahaha
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Another good one is:
"Today I was walking to my office when I saw a beautiful flower growing in some soil on the road. I took a picture and texted it to my special lady saying how much it reminded me of her, and how beautiful it was, even though it smelled awful."
This is how you do it guys. Hahahaha
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For future reference when using the stereotype line with hair color try: “the great debate...blondes vs brunettes”. It’s more “congruent”. That would have been more effective for you in this case
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blonde girls being dumb is a stereotype. you not liking blondes is not a stereotype.