Didn't close on the first date. How to respond
So she came over to my place on the first date and for few reasons I wasn't able to close(mainly time since we hungout before she was going to a concert w a friend). The next day I reengage her and it goes pretty well and the rest is in the pic.
What should I say here? I was thinking maybe sending a pic of my dog saying "He says he misses you" since she was really into him she she was here. or should I just push to find out her schedule?
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Nah. I wouldn't do that. Wait a few days and send a ryan gosling meme or a "Yo sexy". And then, when you go to schedule a date, ask her what night she's free before suggesting the date
I feel like I've gotten a lot of responses like this(where she ignores my message and says shes been busy). I dont feel like a call out is the best idea but curious what you think
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"I'll be sure to relieve that work stress on our date then"
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Ok first, you need to ask her about her schedule instead of shooting blindly in the dark and hoping she says yes and she's able to hang out. "Wyd next week" is extremely vague and not super helpful/specific to your goal.
I would renagage in 3-4 days with the gosling meme or a simple "hola guapa" etc. and then use the dog line -> soft close (what's your schedule like) and from there figure out logistics.
Hope this helps bro.
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You should probably just do what you said with the dog thing.