Did I ask her out too soon? Will help me for next time. 24 hours between first message and me asking her out and she was replying literally immediately

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J

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J

41 Posts (+1), 62 Cmts (+6)

Don’t have to read the whole thing but wanted to send all of it so you can get the gist of how long we were talking. I met her on Instagram. I requested to follow her and she followed me back and liked a shirtless selfie on my highlights. I then messaged her hey x. Thanks for the help

You: Hey x

Her: Hey

You: How’s Spain?

You: Have you finished all your exams for the year now

Her: Got back last night to shitty (area we live) :(

Her: Yeahhhh

You: Eugh

You: How long are you staying in Cov for the summer?

You: That’s fun what do you study?

Her: Till June 26 when I go Barcelona

Her: Gsd hbu

You: We should do something before then

You: Barcelonas so nice are you going with your friends or family?

You: Management

Her: My friendssssss

Her: Ah nice

You: I’m going to Marbella with my friends end of July which is gonna be fun

You: How are you finding your course and what year are you in?

Her: I love it

Her: First year

Her: U going school days

You: I was gonna go and I have a ticket but I went neon last night and then decided not to

You: Are you?

You: Are you circling rn?

Her: Preing

Her: [Photo]

You: I’ve got fomo now

Her: Shld have come

You: I know I actually should’ve was it good

You: Was it full?

Her: Yeaaaaa pretty busy

You: That’s good

You: Do you ever circle with a society?

Her: Nah I don’t circle

You: It’s kind of boring but you should go once to experience it

Her: Nah I’m alright 🤣

Her: Find it rly weird

You: It’s cultish 🤣

You: I wanted the full (uni name) experience though

You: Have you done anything today

Her: My flatmate had her friend over so been hanging w her

You: Fun

You: I’m at the gym

You: [Video] of me flexing my arm 

Her: Wow

Her: Which gym do u go to

You: The Puregym in (area we live) 

You: To me the campus gym sometimes feels like irl hinge

You: And it gets so busy

Her: Why not campus

Her: Why 🤣

You: It’s kind of like pop! where I see everyone I know except I’m all sweaty

You: Also I don’t live on campus

You: Do you go to the campus gym?

Her: Yeaaaaaa

Her: Oh where do u live

You: Near _____ in beautiful (area we live) 

You: Nice

You: Gym girl

Her: Wldnt say do🤣

Her: How come u live there

You: I’m in my final year I’m 22

You: And I don’t live in leam cause I left it so so late to find a house

You: Are you living in leam next year?

Her: Ohhh I see

Her: I am yes

You: Leam is nice

You: Do you want to do something one day this week

You: I can pick you up

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J

41 Posts (+1), 62 Cmts (+6)

I’m open to any and all criticism on my text game. I’m still trying to improve

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J

41 Posts (+1), 62 Cmts (+6)

Also there was no double texting the whole convo

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avilench . Avatar

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yea your closing was def suboptimal. You just went ffrom casual convo to lets hang out. I recommend downloading firetexts (my app) and it will help you generate better texts www.firetexts.com

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J

41 Posts (+1), 62 Cmts (+6)

Alright. I asked her out just over 24 hrs after the first text. For future reference is that too soon?

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