Did I ask her out too soon? Will help me for next time. 24 hours between first message and me asking her out and she was replying literally immediately
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Don’t have to read the whole thing but wanted to send all of it so you can get the gist of how long we were talking. I met her on Instagram. I requested to follow her and she followed me back and liked a shirtless selfie on my highlights. I then messaged her hey x. Thanks for the help
You: Hey x
Her: Hey
You: How’s Spain?
You: Have you finished all your exams for the year now
Her: Got back last night to shitty (area we live) :(
Her: Yeahhhh
You: Eugh
You: How long are you staying in Cov for the summer?
You: That’s fun what do you study?
Her: Till June 26 when I go Barcelona
Her: Gsd hbu
You: We should do something before then
You: Barcelonas so nice are you going with your friends or family?
You: Management
Her: My friendssssss
Her: Ah nice
You: I’m going to Marbella with my friends end of July which is gonna be fun
You: How are you finding your course and what year are you in?
Her: I love it
Her: First year
Her: U going school days
You: I was gonna go and I have a ticket but I went neon last night and then decided not to
You: Are you?
You: Are you circling rn?
Her: Preing
Her: [Photo]
You: I’ve got fomo now
Her: Shld have come
You: I know I actually should’ve was it good
You: Was it full?
Her: Yeaaaaa pretty busy
You: That’s good
You: Do you ever circle with a society?
Her: Nah I don’t circle
You: It’s kind of boring but you should go once to experience it
Her: Nah I’m alright 🤣
Her: Find it rly weird
You: It’s cultish 🤣
You: I wanted the full (uni name) experience though
You: Have you done anything today
Her: My flatmate had her friend over so been hanging w her
You: Fun
You: I’m at the gym
You: [Video] of me flexing my arm
Her: Wow
Her: Which gym do u go to
You: The Puregym in (area we live)
You: To me the campus gym sometimes feels like irl hinge
You: And it gets so busy
Her: Why not campus
Her: Why 🤣
You: It’s kind of like pop! where I see everyone I know except I’m all sweaty
You: Also I don’t live on campus
You: Do you go to the campus gym?
Her: Yeaaaaaa
Her: Oh where do u live
You: Near _____ in beautiful (area we live)
You: Nice
You: Gym girl
Her: Wldnt say do🤣
Her: How come u live there
You: I’m in my final year I’m 22
You: And I don’t live in leam cause I left it so so late to find a house
You: Are you living in leam next year?
Her: Ohhh I see
Her: I am yes
You: Leam is nice
You: Do you want to do something one day this week
You: I can pick you up
yea your closing was def suboptimal. You just went ffrom casual convo to lets hang out. I recommend downloading firetexts (my app) and it will help you generate better texts www.firetexts.com
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Alright. I asked her out just over 24 hrs after the first text. For future reference is that too soon?

41 Posts (+1), 62 Cmts (+6)
I’m open to any and all criticism on my text game. I’m still trying to improve