Dealing with this flake/cancellations (and text game feedback)

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PWF Community - discovered you guys a month ago and have been applying the lessons with inconsistent results.

I wanted to see how to respond to this flake/cancellation (and get overall feedback on text game). I was thinking of responding with "Funny enough I'm interviewing too (it's true). We can keep things casual and chill especially since you seem my type and we vibe well".

Thoughts?

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"Don't have time for a quick drink with the man of your dreams?"

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Alright so this is a bit of a tricky situation, it seems like she thinks you want a relationship, not a hookup. Honestly it might not be possible to save this anymore but since you have nothing to lose I'd send her something like this:

"You wouldn't be wasting my time. Even if we end up never seeing again I wouldn't mind because I think it's better to try once than to wonder forever about what could have been, but if you're not up for that it's completely fine, we don't have to."

But maybe Alex has a better line for this, only got something like this once before.

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Something along those lines. But remove the last part after been as it looks like you're giving away your power and killing it.

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How is showing a willingness to walk away giving your power away? if anything it's the opposite lol

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