(Pls only respond guys with experience)
Let's say you have a girl that is busy all week.
1st option - You can try to set up a date with no logistics to take her home and go for the makeout to make it more solid. And you have a 2nd option - Wait a week and schedule a date with better logistics to take her home but you wait a week where she is being bombarded with guys texting her.
Which one would you choose?
(I have this situation on and on and don't know which one is better)
I’m gonna go with the 2nd option. It’s a high value move to be too busy to see her for a week... Even if she is talking to other guys, they’ll have less value than you in her eyes because they’re try-harding.
That being said, you still are gonna have to keep things warm for that week... Take the good logistics
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I've been in theses situations before. Is she trying to fit you into her schedule or does she have available space to make for you?
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I'm not quitting when they say "this week I can't". I always try too see if she is available after work or whatever reason they give. Normally I'm the proactive one in that sense and they are the "OK let's do it" type.
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So yes, my answer is 2 for sure
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That makes sense. I wouldn't keep pushing for it, but instead make her offer to reschedule on this one just to make the date more likely to happen. "mmh.. solution?"