Hey all,
Tomorrow i have a data with a 20 year old girl i met on Tinder. I'm struggling to come up with a good date idea.
Usually i meet my dates at my place then go to a bar that's walking distance and come back and close.
However, this girl can't legally drink. I don't want to do boring dinner.
Was thinking of going to watch a movie and then go back to my place and see if she wants to drink a bit.
The problem is the logistics on how to get her to my place.
Thinking of getting her an uber to the theater, and taking my car. Then driving to my place before dropping her off at night.
Any other ideas or suggestions?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Nah man. Movie dates are a nightmare. Just invite her for a home date. If she doesn't comply, then just suggest a walk or a park nearby
10 Posts (+1), 471 Cmts (+173)
Bro, just go to a nearby coffee shop. And then pull from there
5 Posts (+2), 372 Cmts (+206)
Don't under any circumstances see a movie, have dinner, or call anyone an uber unless it's to get rid of them afterwards. Movie is the classic bad first date idea.
Find something else that's within walking distance of your house. Ice cream? Coffee? Park? It's not meant to be exciting. The excitement is at your place! If she decides to skip straight to the multiple orgasms, good on her
8 Posts (+15), 334 Cmts (+93)
Thanks everyone, including Alex!
She ended up flaking on me. I believe it was because i didn't make solid plans. I'm not good at gaming under 21 girls. I'll keep all these tips in mind and hone my skills with them.
I'm reviewing my texts with her and they're pretty cringe. Kinda embarrased to post. Here's what she said last:
Me: i honestly didn't take you for the flaky type
Her: my bad. should have said something but i had a long day. wasn't able to sleep until 5am
Me: yeah def give me a heads up. it's ok just make it up to me when we meet
No response yet.
301 Posts (+29), 265 Cmts (+27)
The three C’s must flow man: Cheap, Convenient & Conversation
Grab boba/tea/ice cream & make sure you guys never sit down so she’s always following your lead stacking compliance.
She must be talking 80% of the time & you talk 20% by just being curious about her. Do that for 45mins - 1hr then ask what kind of music she listens to & pull back to your place to “listen” to it.
She’ll associate the positive feelings with her music with you and the next thing you know you’re in them guts bro