29, had 1 longer relationship, lived together, single for a year - unfortunately, didn't check msg history properly so forgot a bit (we talked about multiple oral orgasms - she said it's non-existent)

texting went quite sexual, then backtracked then pushed for meeting her at my place, then meeting in public.

key points

Meeting:
good proximity, she was comfortable with me being close to her, touching lightly
I offered to get a drink in a park, she said it's illegal so we just went to my bar, not the best - so switched to witch bar.

In the bar, I was quite close to her but not much escalation, some stupid topics like travel

asked her about some of her adventurous stuff. She didn't really want to say much, just lowered the bar, but didn't work out well.

Somehow there was a comment that could've hinted she's still a virgin.

After the bar (probably an hour or slightly more)
I was clarifying it in a non-judgmental way.
when I went a bit on more sexual topics, she said she doesn't want to talk much about it. Actually, she brought up the madonna whore syndrome. I complimented and reassured her.

Then we got to in front of my place.
A rather weak pull attempt, it turns out she send already my photo and number and address to her friends haha.

So I suggest to just chill in the park nearby.
I keep talking about pussy-eating, she wants me to change topic. I said ok, we can talk about the weather. She asks if it's normal for me to talk about this so quickly I say yes and imply she's a bit 'weird' but not too hard.

in the park, great proximity, legs touching.

She said once I was too close, I was to kiss her neck lol

Took a bit back.

Then, when did a bit of hair pulling, we agreed that every girl likes hair pulling, choking, spanking. She said I pulled her hair a bit too hard.

Realized it's too much time, no progress properly. So told her we should meet another time. Seeding a cooking date, she's doubting my skill ah.

She kinda was in a still staying mood.

So I told her I need to piss, and walked back to my apartment, she came in no objections.

She didn't want any drinks. Music on my laptop. Got her take off her shoes.
Neck kiss, then makeout.
She said she should go soon. I just agreed. and kept on escalating.

Neck kissing got her going, she stopped my hands on her leg, just tried to work on her thighs and get some friction going for her clit but she was carefully not allowing it lol.

She said again she should go.

I disqualified sex a bit, kinda half-assed. Tried to put her hand on my boner, not working out.

She orders an uber.
It turns out she had no free evening, so I say she should cancel for Wednesday her class. Somewhat went with it, but not hard.

I smack her ass when she left, she's looking back like I shouldn't have.

Any feedback appreciated.