Curfew and Sleepovers
5 Comments
5 Cmts
5y ago
Because of corona curfew and our jobs, there is only 1 hour period where we can actually see each other over at my place. And this is giving her an excuse to back out and try again after curfew is removed.
The logical solution would be to invite her to to sleep over so we can have a proper length date. How can I do that in the smoothest way?
8 Posts (+1), 31 Cmts (+6)
I've suggested staying until the morning and returning then, and her response is ":/"
Our date plan is cooking, eating, movie.
How do I turn around whatever is holding her back, and bring the situation into my frame?
Do I approach with humor? Do I try to understand her concerns and address them logically? Do I try to emotionally make her feel safe?
0 Posts (+0), 4 Cmts (+0)
if you need to convince her to stay over ,that's an issue.
She is already coming at your place, if you are doing good she will stay.
8 Posts (+1), 31 Cmts (+6)
The problem is, date isn't worth it in her eyes if it is only 1h. And she doesn't want to stay over on the first date.