So I get anywhere from 5 to 10 matches per day, and made this account about 1.5 months ago and am sitting on 140 marches now.. I'm completely new to this as I recently got divorced in January and am getting back into dating. My text game always used to suck, but is slowly improving thanks to your guys' help and Alex' videos.. but the issue I'm running into is most these chick's stop responding. I basically copied Alex' bio and added my own twist to it, but what could be wrong with it that is causing this to happen? I'm not as directly sexual as he is so maybe it's not congruent? Idk to be honest. I probably need more pics of me doing activities too... any feedback is greatly appreciated!
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5-10 matches a day is pretty good, which city do you live in? unless you live in touristy city with like a million+ people, I would say that is standard.
Feel free to post your text game convos to get feedback
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Yea the matches are fine, but the retention is my issue like keeping them talking over text
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Hey can you please give any feedback on my photos? I edited a few in FaceApp already. Any feedback is greatly appreciated.
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1 is good, maybe just zoom it out a bit more
2 is great (would be better if it wasnt black/white. Pics with colour give people dopamine and its statisticly proven they work better compared to black/white pics)
3 is a selfie that does nothing for you, its just a worse verion of photo 1
4 is weirdly stretched so i cant rly see it well but from what i can see it doesnt look great
5 would be way better if you werent looking directy into the camera but at least ur doing an interesting activity
When it comes to most girls stop responding, you could get even better photos which will make girls wanna meet up with you more (watch alexs videos about tinder pics). I had a friend take pics of me with a proffesional camera and honestly im still getting about the same amount of likes/matches (had pretty good pics even before tho) but the girls i do match with are now noticably more interested, compliant and down to meet up.
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So for the first pic, if I zoom it out it will have black bars. Would that still be better? The dimensions just don't fit tinder standard.. should I just remove the third pic? And what is your thought on adding this pic?
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Oh no if u zoom it out and it will have black bars then dont do it lol
Yea from the pics on ur profile i would remove 3rd and 4th + i would definetley add this new shirtless beach photo, its sick! I would probably even make that one my profiile pic!
The 4 other photos are not good tho, they are just too posed and u look super young in them
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Or would any of these pics be good to add? I really need to get some new pictures lol
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Hey can you please give me some feedback on my photos? I edited a few in FaceApp already. Any feedback is greatly appreciated.
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