Convo went well, then got blocked?
I matched this girl and we had a good convo on tinder, got her number and continued the convo. But I noticed she unmatched me on the app the day after. Anyway she continued to reply to me and our convo was decent. Then as I was about to schedule a meet up by getting a convo going I realised I’ve been blocked. I’ve attached a screenshot of the final bit of our convo.
What do you think went wrong here? The texting leading up to this was just the usual asking about what we both do etc. I’ve texted her using sms just to let her know if she’s no longer keen I’ll stop trying. I’ve not been blocked there, so let’s see if she explains why she blocked me.
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This is where I left it a few days ago on Friday. It’s not been easy since one moment she’s super down to work it out then she does the bare minimum like just “liking” my comment. For context in her language I wrote we can share that wine together one day.
I still think I can get this one if I’m patient enough, so maybe I’ll put her on the back burner for now but I need some kind of plan moving forward.
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A brief update on this one. She’s down to meet, but her responses are sometimes non existent and I gotta nudge her a few times. She’s insanely beautiful I don’t want to fumble it again ideally.
For context she blocked me after we had a very good convo. I used Alex’s technique to get her to unblock me, where she admitted she’s new to online dating and awkward around new people. I’ve attached our latest convo, not included here was a date location I proposed a couple days ago but no response. I’m willing to be patient with this one but any suggestions welcome on how to maintain this one.
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well idk the context as its just 1 screenshot but I'm lost on those last 2 messages you sent, she might have been too.
Either way, just move on if she block, keep it more to the point and funny next time I guess
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I told her I’m waiting to move into my new place a while ago, she asked how my day was and I said I was still busy with moving.
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I translated to Portuguese to send to her, so I was making a joke to say at least it translated correctly and I didn’t send anything weird and mistranslated.
She hadn’t blocked me on sms, but she didn’t reply either and this was a few days ago. Maybe I can try the “didn’t take you to be the ghosting type” and then drop it? Highly unlikely she responds if she ain’t blocked me on sms too, but she was fine as hell so I guess it won’t hurt to try one last time.
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She just wasn't invested/ interested. Your texts at the end were too long/uninteresting.
Watch alex's recent video on "how not to be boring". Need to keep it more light hearted
On the app there was a lot of investment, quick responses and she was asking questions back etc. once I got her number I got her schedule too, so it wasn’t all negative. Once I noticed she unmatched on the app I thought it might go down from there.
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Then you should post your tinder and other messages to see what went wrong. Based on this screenshot, I'm gonna guess she liked you at first but then you came off too neutral (or even boring) and she lost interest.
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It was just something complicated for her to understand. When girls don't speak English, try to dumb down the texting complication and stick to logistics
Alex help a brother out! She’s fine as hell but I’m still blocked on WhatsApp and she ain’t responded to the two SMS texts. I’ve sent two in the space of 7 days, one last Saturday and one on Tuesday (two days between them).
It ain’t an issue since I got other girls I’m speaking to, but it’s a waste considering her interest level was high before and now I’m blocked for no real reason. Is there anything else I can try or should I just take the L and leave it alone.
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You could always try out this trick. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t5VYu8iPSJs&t=234s&ab_channel=PlayingWithFire
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Brief update.
Instead of pushing for a date I tried to build up more investment by engaging in a conversation with her 5 days ago, but it failed. I wanna try and make this one work out if possible...somebody help lol.
You can see from our previous messages she was super down to meet, but maybe when I said I couldn’t make the days she was free I messed up?
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