I’ve been running into an inordinate amount of conversations that die out at various stages on Tinder and Hinge.
I’ve posted some examples for reference. I’d love a critique of where I am going wrong.
Also, I find that my match rate has declined drastically over the past week. I created my profiles at the beginning of Rona season so perhaps the well has run dry?
Should I create new profiles and delete my current ones?
Thanks!
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Bro I don't even know what to tell u maybe they arent investing in the convo. Not qualifying them selves...fuck idk im just guessing.
Cant wait to see Alex's response
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I don’t see anything wrong with your text game. You’re pretty witty, it is normal for a sizable percentage of your convos to die out. Happens to me also. That’s why after a few days it’s good to reinitiate “Are you always this talkative” works really well.
In terms of your profile, post some screenshots man and I’ll take a look
in ny i haven't noticed any effect w match rate. logically it doesnt not make sense for match rate to go down as nobody has anything to do anymore except go on these apps
texting isn't bad. in fact its quite good in some parts, but it lacks coherence. you also alternative 'cool' mike w 'kinda blah' mike
'ive been extra diligent about working out' etc. cool, but I dont like the placement of this.
you also send a couple of dead end texts which dont make it easy to respond to, which necessitate a double text. eg
'my kinda girl' followed by double text
'red' followed by double text.
good way to respond to message is a format 'acknowledge and add something new'. for example
'my kinda girl, + something that drives the convo forward'
'red, + something that drives the convo forward'
'I say we run away and create our own guidelines' - escalating off non-compliance. girls can def be swayed but it needs to happen gradually after you fix the vibe. lotta these were very responsive and I got good vibes personally but you jumped the gun / were too pushy. try to better recognize where the girl is at, and where you are wrt the interaction
side note, I cant tell you how many tinder girls have something in their bios about how they hate being asked if theyre adventurous. pua community killed this word lol
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Great feedback, thanks, mind if I run a few txts by you in the future (sparingly)
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She may not be serious about meeting up and only bored
And check the location. Tinder had a free passport location thing going on this whole month and like half of my matches are 100+ miles away so theres no point in investing time in those
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These are all on Hinge, but yea I suspect none of them are serious about meeting up. It's impossible to filter them out.
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Just my own personal experience but my match rate has also declined since corona. Don't think that is common tho as think avilench is getting more.
But why delete your profile? care to post it maybe there is something off about it.