Hi community. New joiner and first time posting. I've been following the youtube channel for two months now and my texting has progressively improved leading to some great and kinky stuff :). However, I'm still in the learning curve and improving with time.
I have been talking to this girl from hinge who was keen to date but we had challenges with logistics which ended up pushing the date. I needed to keep her warm. We agreed to setup time and place closer to next week. I'm feeling that the conversation is going downwards since my attempt to sexuliaze (fail). I believe sexualizing was warranted to set the frame that I want. She is not receptive and now I read between the lines that she isn't down to meet anymore.
I recognize my sloppiness with this one, but keen to hear your views and how to rebound. Hoping to do better in the future.
Thank you.















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To be honest, your text game was ok here. At least though you were vibing with her a bit to keep it warm, but other than that, it wasn't so beautiful to the eyes. You also came off a bit uncalibrated when you were trying to sexualize the conversation. It was just out of pocket and choppy. Now to cover the ending when the girl rescheduled on you at the last screenshot, I would have said, "Breaking my heart ___"