Connecting with an old FWB
So there's this old FWB of mine who went abroad for a couple months but is now back in town. The thing is, she has not hit me up about being back even though it's almost been a week since she returned, so I'm not sure whether she's lost interest or just busy. We used to call each other like every week but then slowly over time we stopped calling and texting altogether (just kinda died down and I was busy with other chicks). It's now been like 5 weeks since I last talked with her. What would be the best way to reconnect with her? I was thinking about texting "How's my favorite swede doing" but I'm open for ideas.
I decided to send her this meme: https://img.ifunny.co/images/6371716566895ce57c20650571efe532a6a5183d7a066622c4f1526851775c9c_1.jpg
So this probably wasn't the most ideal way but it definitely worked here. This is the conversation for anyone interested:
Me: (Meme) Is this how it works?
Her: Not sure how that would actually work but sounds pretty good
Me: We'll just have to try
Her: I suppose we could :)
Me: You back in (my city) yet?
Her: Yeah I arrived last sunday
Me: Aight perfect. You got plans for this sunday night?
Her: Not yet
Me: Now you do š
Her: It seems so š I'm not sure how long I'll be occupied with some mother's day stuff but is it OK if I message you when I'm free on sunday?
Me: Yeah š
UPDATE: This one did not end very well. She came over yesterday and we had sex but then like 1 hour into the meetup she told me that as hard it is for her to say it she wants this to be our last meetup because she's lost feelings for me and she's afraid they might resurface if we start seeing each other again. We hanged out for like 4 hours in total and then when she left she started to cry and said stuff like "maybe it won't hurt to text sometimes" but honestly not planning to hit her up again since she was the one who ended things with me. Just pretty confused as to what the actual reason was here since obviously crying a lot means she still had feelings left
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Yeah man. Just hit her up. You don't have to wait for her to hit you up. If she's still interested, she'll respond
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Do you have her on IG? that makes it easy to slide back into chatting with her.
Otherwise just mention something random that reminds you of her. "Just walked past this cute coffee shop. Made me think of you" or some variation of that.