Okay so I met this chick we been talking for about a month and shes recently started to loosen up around me were very playful. Shell let me smack her ass really hard I kiss her and we fight sometimes even play slap eachother but she refuses to have sex with me. She openly told me she talking to another guy shes known for 10 years and she hangs out with her guy friend who she dated before. I want to strat having sex with her but she refuses to go back to her room or come to my crib. I tried kissing on her neck and behind her ear but she said thats her weakness and shell push away. She told me shes afraid of someone having sex with her and ghosting her as this has happened to her before and she is a little older too 35 im 30 so its not a huge difference. I actually really like her personality and bring around her but I want to be able to sexually enjoy her as well.. what do you guys think? She says the other guy she speaks to has helped her throughout her life alot and she has a strong connection with him and cant let go. Idk I know most women have mutliple guys in their lives and I have to accept that im not trying to wife her up but I want her to open up to sex. I literally smack her ass and we tongue kiss but she wont spread then legs its weird what yall think?