Hey boys, I got into game recently and a goal of mine has been to cold approach whenever I see a hot girl instead of just watching her walk away (like I've always done). Went out a couple times but could never work up the courage to approach. None of my friends are into game so I didn't have anyone who could help out... Anyway, I joined a game forum for my city and connected with a couple of the guys inside. Me and this dude met up and did some day game together. Essentially I would see a girl, point her out and he would have to approach. NO EXCUSES. The same for me. Having a wing man that keeps you accountable is key for me and I think that it would help a LOT of guys who are getting into game, specifically cold approach. We ended up doing 5+ approaches each on our first day and he even got some numbers. I got rejected mostly but the fact that I approached is a win for me and means I care less about rejections. Finally did my first approach by myself yesterday and got a number but wouldn't have been able to do it without the initial wingman session.
SUMMARY: If you are struggling with cold approach, get yourself a wingman who keeps you accountable and doesn't allow excuses. If you don't know anyone, join a game forum and reach out.
