Closing at your place
I matched with an Italian girl on hinge. I told her that her type is dominant guys that like to take charge and lead. She complied and wanted to meet next day for a wine date at a bar. However, she texted me the same night and came over around midnight for a wine. We sat on the couch. She had a very closed body language and sat far from me the whole time. Nothing happened and she left around 2 am. What went wrong?
Also, is there a specific sequence you guys follow when a girl comes over at your place?
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You need to build comfort trying getting to open up crack a few jokes then build sexual tension.
@Adam M - thanks man! Are there any specific questions you ask to build comfort?
Also, do you think it’s better to take her straight to bedroom or sit on the couch first?
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You go in ask if she wants a drink of wine. Tell her to sit on couch and maybe ask what music she likes and then put it on background. Then ask where she is from and passions. Then you could casually slide in kinky activities if she asks about you.
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Just ask her why she's being that way. You basically didn't get her to open up and you just dilly dallied without moving things forward
https://www.playingfire.com/how-to-build-sexual-tension-and-make-a-woman-horny/