Have a question on what I should do.. I don’t believe in going to drive and pick up the girl cause thats a huge investment. Her place is 25 min about 16 miles from me. I don’t have a spot rn thats available in case I close... so I planned to meet her halfway.. but seems like she ghosted me.. lmk what I should do blue? I think I shoulda actually gave her an exact spot but its 4-5 days away and I haven’t decided yet.
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Google search bars about halfway, list 2 or 3, suggest a time, and does that work for her. Send ASAP if you want, otherwise this dies on the vine, she's gonna need more leading on your part imo
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Im confused how she ghosted you. If the date is a few days away she just stopped texting you at a logical time it looks like. This is where you would pick it back up and lead. Am i missing something? The whole text string is also kinda confusing to me so Im sure the girl thinks the same but who knows
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She usually responds 1-2 hes after I take about 3-4.. been a whole day should I spark it up back.. we been textin bakc and forth for 2 weeks though
12 Posts (+9), 229 Cmts (+105)
def dude lol. I almost hate that waiting shit. Its important but its so hard to explain to guys the right way to do it. You dont have too wait 2-4 hrs after every text though ill say that much. Honestly if she likes you you can start to respond faster and she'll respond faster as a result. She plays the games just like we do
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You can always offer to get her an Uber and drive her home after