Can one somehow comeback from point of no return?
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So I had been on 4 dates with a girl. We scheduled a 5th date but she flaked the day before saying she had to work and her day off had been changed. I asked when she would be free and she never responded. It's been a week.
A very likely explanation is that last time we spent the night together after partying. She slept with her head on my chest but the next morning I was not able to make sex happen as I felt like she was not responsive to my advances, she wouldn't say no but also wouldn't "help". So I stopped.
She made me breakfast and we talked a bit and then she had to leave for her shift at work.
I feel like double texting is not really an option at this stage. But if she ever reaches out, what would be the ideal approach?
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That would be extremely difficult to do but there's no harm in trying. But this is way too many dates without banging
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Just curious how many of those 4 dates resulted in sex? If I had to guess, it sounds like she's not completely sold on your sexual presence and is having trouble placing you confidently in her mind.
Regardless, it sounds like she needs to be more comfortable with your sexual advances, so if it were me, I'd try not to get too in my head about the past and start in 1st gear with the flirting/sexualizing and build from there.