We fucked last night and she felt like she didn't feel like I like her or smth. Yes, I did give her multiple handprints on her ass. And we cuddled and slept for couple of hours and she left and like 5 am. and she kissed me goodbye on my lips and said "Don't miss me too much"

After the date, I send her the text. "Last night was 🔥".

she: "😊😊"
she :"yeah it was pretty fun. Glad you had a good time"

A day after that, she sends me a text like (not exact) "Hey, I just wanted to thank you for inviting me to stay for the night, but I didn't think I vibed with you pretty well. It's not you, but it seems like our preferences were a bit different in bed. I didn't think I felt the chemistry. I hope you find someone that you have chemistry with in the future."

me: "Hey, if you think that I didn't like you, let me know, but I did have fun during the night and on the bed. Or if you're not interested in meeting up with me in the future, you can tell me that" I send her this text because I was unsure if she was not really into me or if she felt she wasn't wanted that night becuz she thought that I didn't cum (though I did cummed a tiny bit since I might be suffering from a death grip).

Then later, she responds and says "I would want to meet up cuz you're pretty cute and stuff but I didn't get what I wanted. If I'm ever back in town I might hit you up to try again. But idk. I just wanted to get fucked harder and also am a sub lololol"

How should I respond to this to get her go from maybe to a certain Yes? Few things I have in mind right now:

• As a person who might be suffering from death grip syndrome, I prefer girls who put up a little bit of a challenge. Maybe they'll deserve to get fucked harder.
• Ohh I'll punish you again when you come back
• Oh I'll get the handcuffs and blindfolds ready when you're back

I kinda want to see her again. Note that before these texts, I texted her like I was a dom and there was a lot of sexualizing. As a masochist who may be suffering from death grip syndrome, I like when girls put a little bit of challenge (fighting, etc) when having sex and while I'm dominating them. Is that trait truely incompatible with a submissive brat? And also please tell me how should I reply back to that text?

Btw I am totally going to give up on masturbation to enjoy sex in the future.

Sorry I don't provide you the text beforehand because I thought she was not going to respond to me so then I deleted all the message like I do as usual if a girl is not interested.