yeah idk man, that one usually works best for me that's because I live in Miami where everyone is from somewhere else. Another one that can be good is "so give me the basics. Tatoos? kids? felonies?"

I take you mean when you meetup on the date or see a girl at a bar and are chatting her up.

Frame you should have is anything that comes out of “your” mouth is pu**y magnet. With that being said, where are you from/r I from here? What area do you hang out, what area do you live in? What’s your ethnicity? Are you trouble? Etc

"what do you do for fun?"
"What are you looking for on here?"
"<Anything you find interesting in her profile/photos>"
"Tattoos kinks crazy exes?"

They are all not interchangeable of course.