A woman flirted with me at work in a professional setting, I didn’t escalate. Saturday she finds me on tinder, we exchange numbers, and by text I propose meeting for wine on the beach and see the chemistry. I assume I screwed up here because she stopped responding and set notifications to silent. She was probably already ready for me to come to her place and bang. Not sure what to double text her after the mandatory 48hrs, I’m thinking one of the memes I uploaded
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20 Posts (+26), 146 Cmts (+86)
Too many questions dude & shitty climax.
Get one yes then move it forward. This screams "I'm insecure and want to make sure you will like everything about our date". Then you give too many details about the date.
"You feeling spontaneous" is something you should only say if you want to meet her that day for some reason. After she agrees, just say "let's split a bottle of wine tonight". Then once she agrees to hanging out you can say that you will hang out where you want (I would always suggest my place first that is also a mistake but with my approach you would have gotten the date). Well at least higher %.
3 Posts (+1), 10 Cmts (+14)
Thanks for sharing, this really shows the importance of inviting her streight over. Not only do u save time but also if she is dtf you can shoot yourself in the foot with inviting her to a bar or beach. Dont call her "honey bun" tho lol
Next time suggest a meet up at your place and if she gives some resistance then suggest a beach. For now try texting her "Dont be shy"
15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)
Not terrible honestly but the pivotal point where you needed to capitalize was when she said “white wine” you needed to say “great, we should split a bottle tonight” then invite her over which she seemed DTF and would most likely agree.
23 Posts (+4), 187 Cmts (+71)
I’m still talking to this one, sexual conversations, she asks to see my penis a lot
23 Posts (+4), 187 Cmts (+71)
After talking with her more turns out what slowed us down was my suboptimal game and her being a milf. And I ain’t giving up “Hey honeybun”, thats my Hey trouble
23 Posts (+4), 187 Cmts (+71)
Thanks, guys for the input. Well I can't invite her over, my elder dog is pissing everywhere even though there's a doggie door and he rips off his diaper, I need to invite myself to hers or get a hotel
23 Posts (+4), 187 Cmts (+71)
She just hearted my last message: Then we'll start off with a nice bottle of wine, on the beach, & see how the chemistry is
And then said “Hey! Yessss”
15 Posts (+3), 479 Cmts (+240)
Nice man. If that’s the plan I would think sunset would work good. It’d be possible to hook up once it’s dark.