Blackpill looking more appealing
Hi guys,
Sorry to be all doom and gloom but I’m nearing my end with dating..I just seem to get nowhere.
I used to weigh 98kg & now I’m down to 85kg and my aim is to go down to 75kg..however even at 96kg I felt things were even easier ? Lol
My main place of sourcing is insta..I’ve had more success on insta than I ever had on tinder,however I downloaded tinder again yesterday and being on there makes me super depressed and just want to check out.
Instagram I’ve met girls on there..but hardly ever on tinder..being on tinder hair depresses me lol and generally makes me feel abit insecure.
I downloaded it yesterday and so far I’ve had 3/4 matches..i average around 1 match out of 50 swipes.I will attach my photos below and profile.
I’m heading down the stage of blackpill as I’ve seen friends of mine who are super good looking..get double matched and success than me! It’s depressing...even with one of my friend we did a test to see whether bad “game” can reduced his chances with girls..but no he still managed to bag them.
Cold approach I’ve started again..I approached a girl some weeks ago 6.8/10 and we hit it off over insta..however I killed it as she seemed she wasn’t interested in that way.
My lay count is around 7/8 I think..27 year old guy.I just feel like a loser. My confidence is super low now I don’t even like approaching girls in clubs or bars..I’d rather just not speak to them.
I even bought a rating system from ‘wheat waffles’ and he rated me a 5/10 lol...
I’ve being watching too much of this black pill content which ultimately makes me believe it’s all looks.
Honestly feel very defeated.
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
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9 Posts (+15), 447 Cmts (+389)
Dude.. you're a decent looking guy but all these are very posed + bio is weird, watch alexs videos about it and try the standard pwf bio.
95% of guys with average photos on tinder have bad results so dont worry about it.. get natural looking pics of you in a suit, u playing a guitar, doing a sport, cuddling/playing with a pet, when u get in good shape do a shirtless beach/pool pic etc. Congrats on the weight loss, keep it up💪
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
I left a voice memo. Take a listen bro
No offense, but you look kinda fruity in ur photos. Might need a more masculine vibe. Ur giving a creepy stare in ur second photo. I like your bio tho. Maybe get more activity photos
20 Posts (+44), 109 Cmts (+59)
My profile sucks balls and I still get some matches. But my best app is Hinge. It lets you comment on photos which is a game changer for me. I get a lot of matches there just by being creative with my comments. I’ve included my Tinder profile.
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9 Posts (+4), 40 Cmts (+3)
Wait what are your results like on tinder using these photos? Youre breaking all the results that Alex says to have a good profile haha.
Also are you in USA?
20 Posts (+44), 109 Cmts (+59)
I’m in Canada just outside Toronto. My Tinder matches aren’t amazing and I do need to put in the time for better photos. I get about a dozen matches every couple of weeks. Went on a date with one this past Saturday. Hinge is my best source, Bumble has been difficult even though I get matches. Same pics for all apps.
9 Posts (+4), 40 Cmts (+3)
Yep. Listen to Alex voice memo man.. Ive been struggling all year to get better results online, you can take a look at my posts where I talk about it and I think I'm finally reaching a breakthrough with my new pro photos. Though now imma do pro photos of me doing activities. But so far with my new photos I went from getting 0 results to getting small results but with girls in the 7-8 looks range. Just gotta keep improving 💪
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
Bro look, we can give you pointers on your profile but your issues are way, way deeper than that - you have legit issues with validation, self belief, and overall game (applied charisma).
For you I'd recommend watching Owen Cook videos, he puts out a ton of video content on YouTube almost daily. He's not good looking at all and dude is a legend. I'd say dedicate at least 1 hour per day, 7 days per week watching his videos and search for his vids that resonate with you and your most pressing challenges. Good luck man
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
I understand man. You just gotta keep pushing forward. You’re doing good losing weight, are you hitting the gym. Learning game can be a painful process and I can’t count how many times I wanted to give up. It’s not about the end goal, but the journey of how you got there. How you were able to climb over each wall that stands in your way. Like Alex said you can definitely do way better. Keep your head up bro. I’m rooting for you
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Thanks bro !!