“Yeah it’s pretty exclusive but I think I can get you in” if she’s still not down “there is a place close to me we can meet at first so I can make sure your not gonna try and murder me”

Stranger danger?

she's kinda right, could have been a bit smoother in suggesting she come to your place.
why not just meet her at a local bar and bring her back to your place after 30min

The problem is not what to say
It's that she isn't comfortable enough to go to your place and she wants to meet in public.